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Duchess

Two professional women: both married with kids and both juggling clients, reports, potty training, packed lunches, chores, dogs, cats, errands, husbands and …”what was that you said? SEX?”
That three-letter word that once was so frequent, so liberating, so yummy has been sidelined in a sea of life, work and snot.
It is time.
Time to put sex back on a pedestal by injecting some extra spice into our relationships.

Who is Duchess

When my husband and I first got together, my doctor diagnosed me with "vaginal trauma". That's how much we did it.

Ah, those days of utter abandonment, unadulterated pleasure and a lack of sleep due to spontaneous oral sex at 4AM. Work was a blur of happy memories from the night before. It was nothing short of bliss.

Now, eight years on the lack of sleep is more due to our son losing his sheets in the middle of the night and crying out for them to be replaced; our baby girl waking up to be fed, the cat pawing at the blanket; the dogs barking at the animal living beneath our house or the work deadline looming the next day. My husband is hot and our relationship deserves our sex life to be re-prioritized back in the top of the list.

This is the re-ignition of our sexual bliss. Here's hoping my British stiff upper lip of 'just keep going' morphs into a malleable mouth that will accommodate his warm manhood regardless of the time of day and the stack of chores that need to be done.

We started this in the Year of the Dragon. Let's breathe some hot flames into this thing.

Ring of Bliss

Mission: Do It’ers, I have two words for you: BUY THIS.

Your Voice

When Miss Lee and I came out of the sex blog closet last year and appeared on national TV, we were humbled and floored by the amount of emails we received from the Mission: Do It community. Women and men, gay and straight, wrote to us asking for advice about their sex lives. Some were […]

Mission 40: Stuff the Stocking

Just now I emerged, alive at least, from the hell that is Target the day before Christmas Eve.  Yesterday, I took the Boy Duke and the Baby Duchess to the mall in a vain attempt to get the Duke a Christmas present and some stocking fillers that weren’t a colossal waste of time and money.  […]

Full Moon

There is a reason why things happen.  There is a reason why Miss Lee squeezed baby # 4 out, and I quite literally downed tools. I took the birth of Master Lee as being the reason for me not to contribute to Mission: Do It for the last few months.  It was an easy decision: […]

Mission: Do It Baby Number Two Has Arrived!

Mission: Do It was born to instill spice and variety into our sex lives.  Little did we know as we embarked on this adventure that not only would there be spiciness, there would also be babies.  Two of them.  Three if you count the baby born to a reader who dabbled in Mission 3.  Today […]

Mission 38: Who Is Numero Uno?

Miss Lee is about to birth her fourth child any day now so she may find this mission tricky as all her focus will be on pushing that baby out with barely a whimper.  The Duchess however has had a revelation:  no more treating the kids as number one.  That top spot needs to be […]

The “Play” Room

Christian Grey has his playroom.  We have ours. His playroom is an eye-popping myriad of chains, shackles and whatever-you-could-wish-for-in-bondage-gear.  Ours is an eye-popping myriad of plastic toys made in China, Lego blocks and crusty remnants of Play-Doh smeared into the carpet.  A place to find your inner sex kitten?  Not quite.  But when Miss Lee […]

Something Borrowed

There comes a point when talking about sex that you just have to stop talking. Sex is fabulous, sex is fun, sex is liberating, sex is a stress reliever, sex is sexy but sex isn’t something that everyone wants to talk about ALL OF THE TIME.  At least mostly everyone.   There are always exceptions.  A […]

Filippo, The Duke And Me

It’s been a big week: another man joined us in the bedroom.  A hot Italian that was slick to the touch.  The Duke balked initially but as time went on he started to like the company.  Not only was our new companion a specialist in grilling, he was a whiz at skincare – my he […]

Rated G

A Public Display of Affection is purely subjective.  For the Duke, a PDA is a prolonged kiss and maybe if I am lucky a stealth-like squeeze of the behind.  For me, I don’t regard those as PDA’s.  No, I am much more flamboyant in expressing my affection for him in public – my arms drape […]