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News & Updates

Two professional women: both married with kids and both juggling clients, reports, potty training, packed lunches, chores, dogs, cats, errands, husbands and …”what was that you said? SEX?”
That three-letter word that once was so frequent, so liberating, so yummy has been sidelined in a sea of life, work and snot.
It is time.
Time to put sex back on a pedestal by injecting some extra spice into our relationships.

Ob-La-Di Ob-La-Da

One year ago, this night, I sat on this couch. I had reached the end of Netflix, my patience, ideas to induce labor. After hemming and hawing to the point that even I was sick of the sound of my own voice, I had finally resigned myself to hit the pitocin and force that boy […]

Teacher’s Pet

Saw this on the desk of Lee 1’s first grade teacher today. Think Dylan R. is looking for some extra credit???

Your Voice

When Miss Lee and I came out of the sex blog closet last year and appeared on national TV, we were humbled and floored by the amount of emails we received from the Mission: Do It community. Women and men, gay and straight, wrote to us asking for advice about their sex lives. Some were […]

Climbing the Walls in Search of Prostaglandins

My first baby came four days late. My second, a week-and-a-half early, and my third, two-and-a-half weeks early. Hence, I thought my fourth would easily be here by 37 weeks. Today is 39 weeks and 2 days. I know that’s not overdue, but after psychologically preparing myself for the last two weeks, that’s way overdue […]


My spawn has taken over my life. I defied him at 35 weeks to sneak in a trip to Schlitterbahn (remember, the hottest coolest time in Texas from last year, aka Schlitterschlong?) with the two older Lee children, but he got back at me by making me dilate and efface ever so slightly. And, since […]

Mission 29: Massage

Making your husband lift his shirt so you can look for “squeezies” does not count. This has to be a mutual effort in rubbing shoulders, back, feet, neck – whatever body part will please you the most and help you relax. It’s up to you how long to go, and whether to take it coital. But […]

Green + Grey Does Not Equal Go

My OB/GYN must think I am obsessed with sex.  When I heard at the start of the week that the pesky placenta of mine had moved, the first thing I asked him was “Does this mean I can now have sex?” Bemused he responded: “Yes, Duchess.  You can now revert to normal living.” Hurray.  I have the green […]

After a while you learn…

There’s a poem by Veronica Shoftstall that I received in 1996, my freshman year of college, when email was still relatively new. It was just the ticket for an 18-year-old girl three states away from home for several months dealing with the sadness and drama of a long distance relationship that was doomed from the beginning. I didn’t know […]

Mission 14: Get Handy

It’s Labor Day, which means we get to take a little break from our main job this week, so put your tint job to good use, and give him a hand job…while driving. Obviously, we’re suggesting he has the wheel, while you drive the stick. Ha!

Do Not Enter!

So here is the skinny…. as the Mission: Do It journey went live on the worldwide web, it seemed that wasn’t the only thing crackling to life.  I think the week we exhausted ourselves by doubling the charm   it wasn’t the just the Duke and me getting frisky – our reproductive organs were too.  Lo and […]